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5 Things Not To Say At Thanksgiving Dinner

November 20, 2015 by Joyce Cortes Mackenroth 27 Comments

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Thanksgiving day is coming soon! Are you excited to attend Thanksgiving dinner with your family and friends? Of course, I bet that you are excited to see your family and friends. Meanwhile, some people do not want to come to Thanksgiving dinner for some reasons. Some people prefer to go to Thanksgiving dinner in some restaurants instead of attending the dinner with family and friends in hopes of avoiding the family feuds or other personal issues. Some people do not believe in any traditional holiday for  various reasons.

I am sure that you would like to hear what happened in my Thanksgiving dinner with my former boyfriend a few years ago. Let me tell you a little story, I did go to Thanksgiving dinner with my former boyfriend and found that his family and friends brought up the old past issues and yelled at each other loudly. It made me feeling like I wanted to leave soon, my former boyfriend was embarrassed and took me out to the movie without saying goodbye to his family and friends, we just tried to forget what happened.

5 things not to say at thanksgiving dinner

I am writing a post about 5 things not to say at Thanksgiving dinner to help you prepare your attendance properly and respectfully. Please know that Thanksgiving is very special traditional holiday for the family and friends together.

5 Things Not To Say At Thanksgiving Dinner

  1. Religion. Some people have different kind of religions, but they need to respect each other. When you go to Thanksgiving dinner with your family and friends, you find that they have different kind of their religions. Advice: Do not bring up any religious stuff during Thanksgiving dinner in order to avoid getting hurt from the others.
  2. Family (or Friends) Feud. A lot of people have family & friendship issues, but they should manage their behaviors just like civil people who enjoy spending time with family and friends. Once you find yourself to sit right next to your enemy, do not throw your anger out at Thanksgiving dinner. Advice: Control yourself calm and enjoy spending your time with your special ones.
  3. Special Dietary Preferences. Some people mention that they are on diets, they rather avoid eating a lot of greasy foods during Thanksgiving dinner. However, they should not say that to these people who cook because they make amazing delicious foods for special Thanksgiving dinner. Advice: Do not say anything about greasy foods, you do not have to mention that you are on diet.
  4. Political Discussion. Many people have discussed a lot of political things during Thanksgiving dinner. Some people feel uncomfortable talking about political issues because they think that talking about political issues is overwhelming. Advice: Do not discuss political issues with people during Thanksgiving dinner.
  5. Gross Foods. Some people say that the foods are awful during Thanksgiving dinner in the front of the people. It’s hurtful to hear this, it’s not okay to say “Yikes! I don’t like what you cook.” What if your girlfriend’s mother cooks and you end up disliking it? How can you handle that? Advice: Do not say any foods that you dislike.

Which one of the five things should you avoid saying at Thanksgiving dinner? If it’s not in the list, please feel free to add what you suggest.


Filed Under: Friendship + Relationship, Parenting + Children

About Joyce Cortes Mackenroth

My name is Joyce. I'm a founder of Unshakeable Joy. I'm a follower of Christ and I am a woman to blog whatever I feel like - a faith-based blog where I write and share about food + drink, personal growth, spiritual encouragement, Christian living, and others. I am a mother of two adult sons and a blessed wife. Click here to learn more about starting a blog.

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  1. Samantha

    November 20, 2015 at 18:03

    Hahaha, this is so true! My family always gets in arguments and family conflicts before dinner!

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  2. prince rai

    November 20, 2015 at 18:17

    Awesome post … you have shared a very valuable post dear..

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  3. Sheryl

    November 21, 2015 at 12:50

    Those are good ones. Here’s another one for you: Don’t talk about medical problems. I don’t want to hear about bunions or bladder infections while I’m eating.

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  4. Ana De- Jesus

    November 23, 2015 at 02:05

    I can imagine that speaking about religion is definitely not a smart move !

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  5. Robin Rue (@massholemommy)

    November 23, 2015 at 02:48

    We try to keep it light at the Thanksgiving table, too! It’s not worth ruining the day.

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  6. Ourfamilyworld

    November 23, 2015 at 03:09

    This is a great list. I really hate it when people discuss politics at a family gathering.

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  7. Donnabeth

    November 23, 2015 at 04:28

    Thanksgiving is not a tradition in our country but I will remember these for any family occasion!

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  8. Liz Mays

    November 23, 2015 at 05:02

    My family constantly brings up politics. They’re all on the same side of the fence that way so it works for them, but I’m on the other side so I have to just bite my tongue!

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  9. Mardene Carr

    November 23, 2015 at 05:11

    Unfortunately those are the things that are discussed the most..LOL

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  10. tara pittman

    November 23, 2015 at 09:04

    We all need to think before we speak. Good points here.

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  11. Chanelle

    November 23, 2015 at 10:16

    Good info. Thanks for sharing.

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  12. Rachel Mouton

    November 23, 2015 at 12:14

    This is great! I think my family says all of these things LOL

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  13. CAROL CASSARA

    November 23, 2015 at 15:34

    If only people were able to hold their tongues at dinner! Or other times, too.

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  14. Life as a Convert

    November 23, 2015 at 18:15

    I think it’s rude to say these things anytime. People work hard to cook and it’s terrible to talk bad about it.

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  15. Claudette

    November 23, 2015 at 19:15

    I thought you were supposed to fight at these gatherings? Just kidding! Great tips.

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  16. Elizabeth O.

    November 23, 2015 at 19:36

    That’s all so true. I don’t know if families are extra sensitive during Thanksgiving, but it’s better to be safe.

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  17. Beth@FrugalFroggie

    November 23, 2015 at 19:55

    Eating my family dinner is drama free. My in-laws on the other hand you keep the conversation very light.

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  18. victoria

    November 23, 2015 at 21:06

    This are a great post. I hate talking about the religion. good info

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  19. michelle

    November 23, 2015 at 21:08

    i get what you are saying about religion however, if you are hosting the meal and want to pray there is nothing wrong with that. My recommendation for people on diets would be if you are not cooking instead of having the meal catered to you bring your own meal that works within your restrictions

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  20. melandria romero

    November 24, 2015 at 04:27

    i guess it’s okay to talk about this things when you are with your family but with friends and other people, i guess it’s very important to stay on topic related to all of you,

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  21. Lexie Lane

    November 24, 2015 at 04:40

    This is important to remember, just enjoy Thanksgiving Dinner with friends and family it would be fun.

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  22. LaQuinda

    November 24, 2015 at 05:21

    Great advice, but if there’s a gross dish on the table, I’m going to say something! LOL!

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  23. rika

    November 24, 2015 at 14:46

    Great article… absolutely stay away from political discussion

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  24. Shaylee @ Data Nerds

    November 24, 2015 at 15:40

    I agree with all of these things, especially in a family setting. People like to speak their minds more when they’re comfortable so things can get heated!

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  25. Nicole Escat

    November 26, 2015 at 03:23

    One should really be careful with words that will be used whenever in the dining table. It should be a place for healthy conversations rather than arguments. Hehe. Yet sometimes, this is easier said than done 🙂

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  26. angie

    November 27, 2015 at 09:21

    yes while there are many awesome topics to be introduced and discussed over dinner these are most likely topics that should not be

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  27. Iman Brooks

    December 8, 2015 at 17:35

    LOL I love this, and know some people who need to give this a read.

    Reply

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